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How to Talk to Dead People: Start With the Living

Take a minute to think about how you get to know someone. We mentally assess someone as soon as we meet them. The way they choose to dress, wear their hair, their skin tone, etc. tells a story. That story might not be correct, but it's a start. Then, if we are feeling particularly social, we might ask them their name. Some first or last names are so unusual you might feel like asking how they got it. Was it a family name or memorable event for their parents that gave it to them? I always ask. Which usually leads me to where their ancestry originated. One country? Many? I'm always surprised at how willing complete strangers are to offer their story. I then wonder why they're doing what they're doing right then and there. Usually I meet people who are at work and I'm the person they're servicing at the moment. I might find out that they have two jobs and are working themselves through school. Or they miss their children at home because they recently had a setback...

Your Family Tree - How to Start Looking for Ancestors

Ancestor Hunting: As a beginner you need to keep it simple. Embarking on an ancestor hunt can be as exciting as looking for buried treasure. For the hunter the early enthusiasm can, however, quickly drain away if early successes are few, and a clear route is not apparent to finding that nugget of information about an ancestor. The sheer enormity of the task may then seem overwhelming. So, as a beginner, keep it simple, and go for the lowest hanging fruit first. A family tree chart should start with you, then branch along to any siblings you have - names, and dates of birth. Then you can consider the connections to your parents, and any brothers and sisters of theirs. This should be easy work, and quickly you will have some solid foundational information on which to move further up the tree to the next generation within the family, and so on. One temptation is to move too fast, and become entangled in the cross branches where there maybe many cousins, including first and second cousins...